
Not Alone
Two are better than one…If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up ! A cord of three strands is not quickly broken. Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 Every time i read this Scripture, i think of all the projects I’ve done “alone”. I have my reasons for not wanting help, but an extra pair of hands would’ve made the job alot easier. I think God wired me a little differently … i haveta think harder about some things than someone with more experience, maybe. I haveta consider the gameplan over and over with no one talkin to me…distracting me. And then, i feel I’m taking “them” away from something they need to be doing, or something they’d rather be doing. So…i just do “it” by myself. I like Pennye Jacobs Lewis to be out there with me…just because i enjoy her presence…but i really don’t ask for her help or want her to be talkin to me 😄. If I’d’ve known God was gonna take my mama home so soon, i think i would’ve let her help me with a couple o’ projects i had goin as me and Pennye were gettin settled back in to my old home place. Because she always wanted to help, mama would be tryin to put hands on my material or straighten up something i would get to later. I kept “runnin her off” ( nicely ), tellin her i didn’t want her to get hurt…or, wasn’t ready for that yet…encouraging her to go visit with Pennye or something. As i look back, she was just trying to lend a hand…to help…to “make herself useful” … and i robbed her of that blessing. It’s one of my greatest regrets … and i robbed myself of those precious moments that God was trying to give me. I believe we do it more than we imagine. I didn’t read the Bible with my kids while they were growing up … I didn’t take them to serve our community, as a ministry … i didn’t tell a couple of uncles how thankful i was for their showing me what the love of Jesus really looked like … I’ve lost opportunities to show young kids God’s creation and pass on some of my knowledge and experiences … so yeah…i know what the writer means when he wrote,” But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up !” If you’re a “loner”, you’re trading some of God’s greatest blessings for quality time with His “gifts”. You’re also robbing others of the blessing they’d get from being with you ! Our Lord didn’t come to earth and serve, minister and teach by himself ! That’s why he chose disciples ! Fellowship and community is one of God’s greatest blessings ! We oughta embrace it more, insteada doin life alone.













